“Man will only become better when you make him see what he likes to see.” - Anton Chekhov When Reflection Becomes Manipulation A narcissist lives by that line - not as a path to betterment, but as a strategy of control. They make you see what they want you to see, and in return, reflect back what you think you like. Compliments, charm, intensity - all a calculated mirror. When you’re caught in that reflection long enough, you stop seeing yourself. You begin to chase validati

In a relationship with a narcissist, you have two choices — surrender and become their puppet, or break free and become the villain in their story. For every Desi who’s ever been told to “adjust,” this SEVEE blog by Parita Sharma reminds you — Har ke jeetne waalon ko hi baazigar kehte hai. 💔

In a world full of choices and dating apps, ghosting - when someone suddenly disappears without explanation — has become heartbreakingly common. Let’s understand why it happens, what it does to our emotional health, and how to heal with compassion and clarity.

"Situationships—half love, half confusion. Whether you’re in India or a Desi in the US, this undefined relationship status hurts more than we admit. Learn what situationships mean, why they’re trending, and how SEVEE & Parita Sharma help you find clarity in love."

Shades of Sorry” by Parita explores the many ways desis in New York & New Jersey use the word “sorry”—from heartfelt apologies to anxious habits. Discover how tone, body language, and culture shape every shade of sorry, and why it’s time to stop over-apologizing and start living with confidence. | SEVEE Care

This blog is about: Understanding limerence — the intense emotional infatuation that feels like love but is often driven by obsession, fantasy, and uncertainty. We’ll explore what limerence is, why it happens, and how it can affect your mental well-being in relationships.

This blog is about: Understanding cognitive dissonance in toxic relationships, how it differs from cognitive distortions, and how it overlaps with trauma bonding. This guide is written in survivor-focused language to help you make sense of the confusion you’ve been carrying.

When it comes to healing, ChatGPT can give you quick tools, but a human therapist gives you connection. In the debate of ChatGPT vs Human Therapist, the truth is clear: AI can support, but humans heal. For Desis in New York, California, New Jersey, and across the US, SEVEE offers culturally-attuned therapy that understands both your immigrant struggles and your Indian roots. Choose human. Choose SEVEE.

Don't go to therapy .... Know the reasons where choosing therapy might not work for you. “Therapy isn’t for everyone — but when you’re ready, it can change everything. SEVEE offers culturally-attuned therapy for Desis in the US & India.”

Every year, when we welcome Ganpati Bappa into our homes, it feels like inviting wisdom, joy, and protection to sit with us. He comes...

“Are you overthinking — or is it something deeper?” We all get caught in spirals of worry. But when thoughts feel intrusive, excessive, and out of your control — it may be more than just overthinking. This article breaks down the psychological difference between overthinking and obsessive thinking, the DSM-5 criteria for obsessions, and how to manage both. Learn to spot the signs, name what’s happening in your mind, and take small steps back toward peace.

On World Sexual Health Day, we share a raw, impromptu skit about two girls in love — and the heartbreak of walking away. This blog explores love, loss, and the silences LGBTQ+ voices often carry. Because what we had was real.

Understand transference and countertransference in therapy: who coined these terms, why they matter, and how they can be used to deepen healing.

This blog is for therapist and clinicians, or anyone who is interested in psychology. Learn what projective identification is, how it acts like a self-fulfilling prophecy, and how it plays out in therapy and relationships.

Not all seizures are the same. While epilepsy stems from abnormal brain activity, conversion seizures are rooted in unresolved emotional trauma. This SEVEE-style watercolor illustration gently explains the differences—rhythmic vs exaggerated, electrical vs psychological—so you can understand, empathize, and seek the right care. Awareness saves lives. Compassion heals them.

To deal with overthinking and obsession, the approach needs to be slightly different, though both share a need for mental clarity, emotional regulation, and skill-based strategies. Here's a side-by-side plan, grounded in psychology and neuroscience:

When the dhols beat in India and the smell of modaks fills the air, being far away can sting. Ganesh Chaturthi is not just a festival — it’s belonging, family, and faith. If you’re a Desi abroad missing home, here’s why it hurts, how you can still stay connected, and how SEVEE holds space for you even when you’re seas apart.

It’s not just the time zone. Sometimes your heart lags behind too. If you've just flown to a new country and suddenly feel anxious, lost, or unusually tired—this isn’t just jet lag. This is your body, mind, and emotions catching up with change.

Therapy isn’t a quick fix. It’s not an instant spell or a magic wand. Healing takes time, patience, and commitment. Just like brewing a cup of tea, therapy needs space to steep before it can offer clarity and strength.

Wondering how often is sex okay? This warm, all-ages guide unpacks the real answer behind frequency, consent, and emotional intimacy — without shame. Written by Parita Sharma for SEVEE.