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Revenge of a narcissist

Writer: Parita Sharma
Parita Sharma
May 15, 2025
2 min read

Updated: Jul 8, 2025

For a narcissist, it’s never transformation - it’s a reset button. Not a reboot. The person is the same, only the strategies have changed.

They were losing, or they had already lost control over you. When their tactics failed, when the smear campaign didn’t break you, when you stood your ground and let the RA:WON reveal itself - something shifted. Narcissist don't just leave you - they take revenge.

The mask didn’t just slip. It shattered.

They are not heartbroken. They are not hurt. They are defeated. It’s not guilt. It’s not shame. It’s not regret. It’s defeat - and RA:WON doesn’t lose. So what do they do? They hit the snooze button.

a couple, a man giving a gift to a women

Suddenly, their love is back. But not for you. Not even for the world. It’s for their own reflection - because in their bubble of delusion, it’s important that you are the broken one. So they can play the hero.

But now - you see yourself. You’ve accepted your truth. You stopped clinging to their illusion. You embraced reality.

And when the illusion crumbles, when the old tactics no longer work - RA:WON becomes Kumbhkaran. A deep, calculated sleep.



This doesn’t mean the devil is gone. It means - hold on. The game is still on.

New game plan

New strategies

New rules.

Same ending - gaslight.

Your reality starts shifting again. You begin explaining.Pleading.For mistakes you never made.

When their insecurities erupt, they project. If you absorb the projection, life becomes bearable. If you don’t - All hell breaks loose.

New actors enter. But the story? It remains the same.

They win - At the cost of

Your reality,

Your identity,

Your love.

They thrive while you shatter. Once again, left to pick up the broken pieces - Not yours, But the ones they strategically placed in your hands.

They walk away - Wearing the disguise of your confidence. While you - Stumble through the rubble of their fears and insecurities.


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