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Letter to the Giver: On Reciprocation
Reciprocation is the fuel that sustains your integrity and confidence in giving. It reminds you that connection is circular - not hierarchical. It tells your nervous system that you matter too. Pause : Reflect : and Wait to be reciprocated before giving more... You will need it .... Read More
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Why Therapy Feels Slow When You’re Leaving a Trauma Bond
You are not slow. Your nervous system is protecting you. When you grow up or live in a relationship where love and fear are mixed together, your mind learns to survive by attaching to the person who hurts you. This is called a trauma bond - and healing from it requires slow, gentle, step-by-step work. Here’s why therapy sometimes feels slow or confusing during this process: 1. Your nervous system is still in survival mode Trauma bonds activate the same circuits your brain us
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